I generally support the right of consenting adults to do as they will in the privacy of their own homes. I am far from believing our culture should giddily embrace every silly lifestyle out there, I merely am skeptical about the government’s right to prosecute people for having weird sex lives.
In the privacy of my own life, however, I’m fairly traditional, clean-cut and quiet. I prefer to chose my friends and colleagues from people who share a similar mindset. I don’t mind in the slightest being snobbish to people I find too bizarre for my sensibilities.
I would consider myself a Right-leaning libertarian, then. I’ll give you the right to live your life in private as you see fit. Just stay the hell away from me, don’t expect me to join in if I find it silly or offensive, and don’t tread on my right to form exclusive groups with my own kind. I’ve been called “intolerant” for this attitude but I think this hands-off approach defines socio-political tolerance. “Tolerance” certainly doesn’t mandate “acceptance” despite what liberals would have you believe.
Most pagans seem to deliberately immerse themselves in every kind of fringe activity they can get their hands on. They don’t consider themselves “the other” because they practice a minority religion – they probably practice a minority religion because they have always identified themselves with the cultural other. In other words, they most likely always identified with the fringe, and they deliberately chose a minority religion because it was another bullet in the ammunition they fire at traditional society. I’m quite the opposite. I’ve always been fairly traditional. My status as a pagan unfortunately confines me to the fringes at times with respect to Judeo-Christian society, but I certainly didn’t pick my religion to be different. I just happen to be a normal member of society with a different religion.
My version of paganism is not the one I see being practiced by a majority of self-described pagans. Particularly if they live in liberal Meccas like Boston or San Francisco. Everything to them is being different, everything is a matter of “deconstructing” normal society. Their liberal counter-culture activism seems to be the most important thing in their life; their pagan religion, as it were, seems merely to be an expression of that. Just another notch in their “being different” mantra.
The conservative in me is rather disgusted by their antics. But the libertarian in me says they have the right to do as they want, as long as they stay the hell away from me. And the pagan in me bemoans the fact that my gods are being used as a cover for so many charlatans and morons.